There is the old saying “treat em’ mean and keep em keen.” Women all over the world tend to employ this strategy as a way to keep a man interested in them. I am not a fan of that mentality and I know quite a few people who would probably smack you over the head for even trying it. There are those out there, who may not know the age-old adage but practice it more than they know. They are the same ones who wonder why it is they cannot attract or keep a decent guy.

What many of these women fail to realize is the guy often spots a player and tend to play the same game, turning the tables on the woman who thinks they have the upper hand.  Getting beat at your own game sucks and what is worse, everyone knows you got beat when you start posting and blogging about John and his scandalous ways. “Why does he treat me so bad!”

If we treated each other with loving kindness and left the games to the children, relationships would be healthier and more satisfying. We would also know what we were getting into before the marriage night. TTFN

~Y